Welllll, I've been following this post and finally decided to chime in. Getting married young CAN work out, but it takes a LOT of work, sacrifice for both parties, etc., etc.. Basically what a lot of people have said. It's easy to think you're "sure" of things when you're young, but if you are you are. I think I can speak authoritatively about this. My wife and I were both just 20 when we got married..........that was 36 years (in 2 months) ago. It has been a HARD road sometimes, damn close to leaving each other, but ALWAYS worked things out. We waited 4 years to have kids until after my return from southeast Asia with the Air Force. In those 4 years, we got all our partying and rabble rousing out of us together. We knew also that we were ready for kids. Kids ain't easy, but the rewards far far outweigh the problems. Throughout these 36 years, there have been heartaches and elation. We hit bottom and rose to great heights together. It's ALL been worth it. My wish for you and your fiancee is many many years of marital bliss and happiness....even when things aren't going so well....and there'll be times when they aren't. Love and respect each other and it'll work.
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