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Originally posted by frenchblueC2:
I think you all are trying way too hard to project your own personal ideals onto this guy's relationship, especially without knowing all the details, and assuming too much about her side of the story.
Mr. T pity the foo who don't listen to Kim.
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Originally posted by Mr T:
Originally posted by frenchblueC2:
I think you all are trying way too hard to project your own personal ideals onto this guy's relationship, especially without knowing all the details, and assuming too much about her side of the story.
Mr. T pity the foo who don't listen to Kim.
I'm usually listening alright.. 
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Originally posted by JReebs96sport:
Originally posted by Rickson:
Originally posted by JReebs96sport:
Originally posted by mean'tour:
How will you guys support yourselves? Do you/ will you both have jobs? Are there any college plans for either of you? There probably should be. I couldn't imagine being married in College. I put myself through and was always busy with work or classes or homework. But some people do it.
Those things being said, do what you feel and think is right. BUT DON'T GET MARRIED JUST BECAUSE EVERYONE IS TELLING YOU NOT TO! ! ! That will never work. Make sure you are BOTH TRULY COMMITTED to this relationship, and realize that marriage is about more than sex and romance. It's hard work, make sure you BOTH realize that and are committed to it.
That's just my advice, take it for what it's worth which...
Good luck.
I am a Real Estate Agent and a loan officer. My fiance is a SSA at Bank One. I am in school full time, while she is not in school because we see no need for it. She will be a stay at home mom in a year or two! I can't wait to be a dad. We love kids!
Thanks for your advice.
lmao u think she will stay home for the rest of her life.
No offense, i know your dreaming this marraige up. Did you do a mail order a bride from another country??
Just by your response, I can tell you grew up with divorced/unfaithful parents, didn't you? Not ment to be a criticism, just a point.
um do u read people's replies at all??
Originally posted by Rickson:
Yes my parents had a arragned marriage. Yes they are still together.
I reject your reality and substitute my own.
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Originally posted by JReebs96sport:
Fellow CEGers,
Just curious to hear what you have to say about my situation. I am 19 years old and I am getting married on July 7 this summer (will still be 19). My fiance and I have been engaged for about 9 months since graduation day from high school. We are so excited!!! Carribean Cruise Honeymoon!!!  ... but so many people think and tell us that "you are too young." We really don't feel like we're that young. I just don't see a purpose to waiting when we can marry now and spend more time growing with each other. My parents got married at 18 and their still very happily married. Her parents got married young also. Any thoughts from you guys? Do you think that we are too young (no stopping us now )or do you think the world is just changing its views on marriage? People are getting married in their late 20's nowadays!!! To you married CEGers... how old were you when you got married?!?!
P.S. We are NOT getting married because a little one is on the way or anything crazy like that!!! 
I was 20 and my wife was 21 when we got married. People constantly told us "You're too young, wait till you are financially stable (HAHA), WHAT?"
We're now six years into our marriage and have four kids and enjoying life to the fullest. Don't listen to other people, listen to yourself. If you feel you are ready, be sure that this is for life. That's all I can say.
Good luck!
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Originally posted by excel4600c:
 Dont do it love is a figment of your imagination its not real. ITs without meaning or purpose.
Somebody has never been in love...
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Originally posted by robertchevy:
Big mistake that early. I will like to talk to you five years because I'm willing to bet anything you will be divorced. Reason is your only 19.
You really need to get your hormones under control and think about this before you do it.
Plus if your so commited and all wait 1 more year, see if you still the same way.
I will talk to you in 5 years and you will see how ignorant you were. How much do you want to bet??? The more the better!
Also, age has nothing to do with it. Neither does the "love" you guys talk about. Love is a friendship. If your commited to one another, faithful, honest, caring, and of course "loving" to your spouse, marriage will work. Ashley and I are best friends. Sure we have are fights/disagreements/miscommunications, but we always resolve them right away and we always have each other to lean on. You guys devalue the meaning of love.
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"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails"
By the way... I do not need to "get my hormones under control." I am not marrying Ashley because of hormones.
Plus, why would I wait another year? We see no purpose in waiting. We want to start a family and raise our kids being the cool, young parents. We want to see our grandchildren grow up to have our great grandchildren. If we wait another year, that is 395 days less that we will be able to spend with our great grandchildren. That may sound stupid, but that is how we feel.
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Originally posted by robertchevy:
Holy [censored] I just had to respond. I cant believe what you said above.
So has she agreed to be a stay at home for life?
You think this is like on TV the Applebees commericals, when the Dad drives in his business suit and the mom and kids all come running outisde and so glad to see him? You think your wife is just going to cook, clean, and raise a few kids and then give you some later on?
You don't know my wife to be. She is the most amazing woman. No, she has not agreed to be a stay at home mom. There was no reason for her to agree because it was her idea. She wants to raise our kids and I respect her for that. She defiently is going to cook, by the way... she makes the most amazing food ever. I wish my mom could've cooked like her! She doesn't mind cleaning, nor do I. I will help her out with whatever she asks. And yes, I'm sure she'll give me some later on. And if she isn't "in the mood," ... I'm still honored just to be her husband.
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Originally posted by Big Daddy Kane:
Originally posted by JReebs96sport:
Originally posted by Rickson:
Do you have any pics of you and the future bride we can see??
Yes! But can't figure out how to post them?!?!? They currently are on my C Drive, under Owner Documents. Any sugguestions?
Use a free image host, or send em to someone like me who can host em.
I will email them to you asap. Thanks.
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Originally posted by deftoned989:
This kind of attitude just illustrates your ignorance. You put a smiley after stating the fact that she's going to be a stay at home mom for the rest of her life? That's love! Also, perhaps she should go to school for the sake of education if nothing else Maybe she'd realize the mistake she's about to make...
The smiley face was because I am going to be a father in a few years! I can't wait. And she wants to raise our children. That's love! And perhaps she doesn't need to go to college. She always had high honors in high school, and so she is not just some dumb, uneducated whore that I found on the streets who wants to marry me for my money. The only mistake we'd be making is waiting to start our lives together as faithful husband and wife.
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Originally posted by frenchblueC2:
I would LOVE to be a stay at home wife (omit that mom part because that ain't never gonna happen).
I think if they can make it work financially, then all the power to them.
There are plenty of marriages with stay at home moms out in this world, and they're doing just fine. It can be done, and it's not some sort of old fashioned ideal.
Some women actually do want to raise their kids, rather than leave them in the care of other people all day long. Gee, how dare they 
I think you all are trying way too hard to project your own personal ideals onto this guy's relationship, especially without knowing all the details, and assuming too much about her side of the story.
Well said Kim. Thanks.
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