Holy [censored] I just had to respond. I cant believe what you said above.

So has she agreed to be a stay at home for life?

You think this is like on TV the Applebees commericals, when the Dad drives in his business suit and the mom and kids all come running outisde and so glad to see him? You think your wife is just going to cook, clean, and raise a few kids and then give you some later on?

That isnt what marriage is about, as many people have told you before.

Now I know you arent going to listen to anyones advice and do what we say, you arent going to sit down and talk to her, and talk because it will all be okay later on, and hey we will dea with it later.

I'm just saying man your 19, thats it 19. You are making a LIFETIME commitment, a lifetime not for short time this is the girl you will be with your whole freaking life.