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I got married at age 21 and she was 20. We meet in college and we were dating for 3yrs before ever thinking about marriage. Well we did and now we are both turning 25 and are still very happy. Yeah there are problems here and there, arguments at times, but who doesn't have them. the only thing you have to do is work them out and go on with life. I must say I do love her very much and do not know what I would do without her. I hope she feels the same way  Anyways, just do what your heart tells you and you should be fine.  Felix
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Originally posted by Eazy E:
think about it....one 'gina for the rest of your life...
spoken like a true kid. being married, or in a LTR, provides you with better sex than you will get with STR's and one night stands(assuming you're well matched sexually to your mate). while getting some strange can be exciting, the person you're with certainly doesn't know what you like and don't like... ya know? it's not like you can ask a girl to smother you in gravy on the first date.
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Originally posted by MxRacer:
it's not like you can ask a girl to smother you in gravy on the first date.
Good grief! What kind of wacky kink are you into?  
BrApple-its all in the way it is presented...but everythign on my resume is all me
TexasRealtor-I hope you spelling improves on your resume.
MxRacer-ladies and gentlemen, welcome to ironyville. population, texasrelator.
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I reject your reality and substitute my own.
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Originally posted by ElKy:
i meant to ask...cuz i dont rememeber reading it in the thread.
do you guys live together now?
if so, how long?
and this may sound silly, but are you comfortable enough to fart around her? her around you?
i ask that in all seriousness.
if you arent comfortable with stuff like that then how are you guys gonna live in the same house and be around each other most of the time?
No, we do not live together. Sorry, I forgot to mention that. Also, we definently are comfortable around each other. My favorite is to fart and put on window lock so she can't roll down her window! Very cruel, but very funny! She tells me it stinks, but I know she loves it!
For Sale - 96 Tour Sport 2.5L MTX with SVT Exhaust, pre 98 trunklid with newer Contour Sport spoiler instead of lip spoiler, newer Contour sport rims. Newer paint job. Brand new floor mats. Rust Free! PM me for details and pics.
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Originally posted by mean'tour:
How will you guys support yourselves? Do you/ will you both have jobs? Are there any college plans for either of you? There probably should be. I couldn't imagine being married in College. I put myself through and was always busy with work or classes or homework. But some people do it.
Those things being said, do what you feel and think is right. BUT DON'T GET MARRIED JUST BECAUSE EVERYONE IS TELLING YOU NOT TO! ! ! That will never work. Make sure you are BOTH TRULY COMMITTED to this relationship, and realize that marriage is about more than sex and romance. It's hard work, make sure you BOTH realize that and are committed to it.
That's just my advice, take it for what it's worth which...
Good luck.
I am a Real Estate Agent and a loan officer. My fiance is a SSA at Bank One. I am in school full time, while she is not in school because we see no need for it. She will be a stay at home mom in a year or two! I can't wait to be a dad. We love kids!
Thanks for your advice.
For Sale - 96 Tour Sport 2.5L MTX with SVT Exhaust, pre 98 trunklid with newer Contour Sport spoiler instead of lip spoiler, newer Contour sport rims. Newer paint job. Brand new floor mats. Rust Free! PM me for details and pics.
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Originally posted by JReebs96sport:
Originally posted by mean'tour:
How will you guys support yourselves? Do you/ will you both have jobs? Are there any college plans for either of you? There probably should be. I couldn't imagine being married in College. I put myself through and was always busy with work or classes or homework. But some people do it.
Those things being said, do what you feel and think is right. BUT DON'T GET MARRIED JUST BECAUSE EVERYONE IS TELLING YOU NOT TO! ! ! That will never work. Make sure you are BOTH TRULY COMMITTED to this relationship, and realize that marriage is about more than sex and romance. It's hard work, make sure you BOTH realize that and are committed to it.
That's just my advice, take it for what it's worth which...
Good luck.
I am a Real Estate Agent and a loan officer. My fiance is a SSA at Bank One. I am in school full time, while she is not in school because we see no need for it. She will be a stay at home mom in a year or two! I can't wait to be a dad. We love kids!
Thanks for your advice.
lmao u think she will stay home for the rest of her life.
No offense, i know your dreaming this marraige up. Did you do a mail order a bride from another country??
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Originally posted by cjbaldw:
Jeff,
A few questions:
1) How long have you two known each other?
2) When you disagree, how do you handle it?
3) Have you had any premarital counseling?
4) Have you attempted to work through some of the fundamental issues like money, time, career goals, life goals, children?
5) Can each of you compromise on what you want?
1) We have known each other since we were about 5 years old, but her family moved away when she was 7 and came back to Michigan when she was 15. We have been dating/engaged since then.
2) When we disagree, we try to never raise our voices or say anything that we will regret later. We also never leave each other until the problem is solved.
3) We have had premarital counseling from 3 different pastors, so we can get a few different viewpoints.
4) We have worked through almost all of the major issues such as money, time, goals, and family/children.
5) She is better at compromising than I am, but I am working on it!
For Sale - 96 Tour Sport 2.5L MTX with SVT Exhaust, pre 98 trunklid with newer Contour Sport spoiler instead of lip spoiler, newer Contour sport rims. Newer paint job. Brand new floor mats. Rust Free! PM me for details and pics.
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Originally posted by deftoned989:
Originally posted by JReebs96sport:
Fellow CEGers,
Just curious to hear what you have to say about my situation. I am 19 years old and I am getting married on July 7 this summer (will still be 19). My fiance and I have been engaged for about 9 months since graduation day from high school.
I don't know if it's mentioned anywhere else in this thread, but is she your first serious relationship/first sexual experience? If yes to either of those, have fun with about an 80% chance of getting divorced inside of 5 years.
Great... another "glass half empty" guy. I hate negativity.
For Sale - 96 Tour Sport 2.5L MTX with SVT Exhaust, pre 98 trunklid with newer Contour Sport spoiler instead of lip spoiler, newer Contour sport rims. Newer paint job. Brand new floor mats. Rust Free! PM me for details and pics.
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I'm 19 and would not get married at my age. There are pressures and responsibilities involved that you most likely aren't going to handle great. If you truly love each other and whatnot, what is another few years? 9 months really isn't jack.
Do what you feel is right. If it blows up in your face, lesson learned.
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