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Originally posted by Rickson:
Do you have any pics of you and the future bride we can see??
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Yes! But can't figure out how to post them?!?!? They currently are on my C Drive, under Owner Documents. Any sugguestions?
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Originally posted by Rickson:
Originally posted by JReebs96sport:
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How will you guys support yourselves? Do you/ will you both have jobs? Are there any college plans for either of you? There probably should be. I couldn't imagine being married in College. I put myself through and was always busy with work or classes or homework. But some people do it.
Those things being said, do what you feel and think is right. BUT DON'T GET MARRIED JUST BECAUSE EVERYONE IS TELLING YOU NOT TO! ! ! That will never work. Make sure you are BOTH TRULY COMMITTED to this relationship, and realize that marriage is about more than sex and romance. It's hard work, make sure you BOTH realize that and are committed to it.
That's just my advice, take it for what it's worth which...
Good luck.
I am a Real Estate Agent and a loan officer. My fiance is a SSA at Bank One. I am in school full time, while she is not in school because we see no need for it. She will be a stay at home mom in a year or two!  I can't wait to be a dad. We love kids!
Thanks for your advice.
lmao u think she will stay home for the rest of her life.
No offense, i know your dreaming this marraige up. Did you do a mail order a bride from another country??
Just by your response, I can tell you grew up with divorced/unfaithful parents, didn't you? Not ment to be a criticism, just a point.
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Everyone ive talked to that was married before 22 it failed before they hit 5 yrs together.
Consider yourself now ****JINXed**** 
Your not ready to get married you still have your party yrs ahead even if you party now. between 19 and 23 are the main party yrs for males and 18 to 24 for females.
 Dont do it love is a figment of your imagination its not real. ITs without meaning or purpose.
oh and you dont want to be part of the 49% divorce rate do you.
Someone take this man to a strip club so he can see what he's missing out on.
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Big mistake that early. I will like to talk to you five years because I'm willing to bet anything you will be divorced.
Reason is your only 19, you havent dated a lot of people seriously in life, neither has she.
Trust me when you in you mid early 20s and mid 20s, you will want to go out and have a good time with your buddies, but she wont let you.
You really need to get your hormones under control and think about this before you do it.
Plus if your so commited and all wait 1 more year, see if you still the same way.
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Holy [censored] I just had to respond. I cant believe what you said above.
So has she agreed to be a stay at home for life?
You think this is like on TV the Applebees commericals, when the Dad drives in his business suit and the mom and kids all come running outisde and so glad to see him? You think your wife is just going to cook, clean, and raise a few kids and then give you some later on?
That isnt what marriage is about, as many people have told you before.
Now I know you arent going to listen to anyones advice and do what we say, you arent going to sit down and talk to her, and talk because it will all be okay later on, and hey we will dea with it later.
I'm just saying man your 19, thats it 19. You are making a LIFETIME commitment, a lifetime not for short time this is the girl you will be with your whole freaking life.
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Originally posted by JReebs96sport:
Originally posted by Rickson:
Do you have any pics of you and the future bride we can see??
Yes! But can't figure out how to post them?!?!? They currently are on my C Drive, under Owner Documents. Any sugguestions?
Use a free image host, or send em to someone like me who can host em.
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Originally posted by JReebs96sport:
Great... another "glass half empty" guy. I hate negativity.
It's called reality my friend and looking at the situation from an objective viewpoint. Looking at statistics and real world examples, couples in your situation fail more often than succeed. Also, what the hell did you expect posting on an internet forum asking people on their "thoughts" on this subject.
Originally posted by JReebs96sport:
My fiance is a SSA at Bank One. I am in school full time, while she is not in school because we see no need for it. She will be a stay at home mom in a year or two!
This kind of attitude just illustrates your ignorance. You put a smiley after stating the fact that she's going to be a stay at home mom for the rest of her life? That's love! Also, perhaps she should go to school for the sake of education if nothing else Maybe she'd realize the mistake she's about to make...
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I would LOVE to be a stay at home wife (omit that mom part because that ain't never gonna happen). I think if they can make it work financially, then all the power to them. There are plenty of marriages with stay at home moms out in this world, and they're doing just fine. It can be done, and it's not some sort of old fashioned ideal. Some women actually do want to raise their kids, rather than leave them in the care of other people all day long. Gee, how dare they  I think you all are trying way too hard to project your own personal ideals onto this guy's relationship, especially without knowing all the details, and assuming too much about her side of the story.
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Originally posted by frenchblueC2:
Some women actually do want to raise their kids, rather than leave them in the care of other people all day long. Gee, how dare they
The way he stated how his wife was going to be a stay at home one just sounded a little bigoted to me IMO. If both partners really agree to that situation as best for all, more power to them like you said.
Originally posted by frenchblueC2:
I think you all are trying way too hard to project your own personal ideals onto this guy's relationship, especially without knowing all the details, and assuming too much about her side of the story.
Like I said earlier, he asked the internet for "thoughts" on his situation, and by golly that's what he's going to get. 
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I love the people giving advice that "she" is *GOING* to be a party girl in five years. 
Who tf knows this girl better than the fiance?
Secondly, I hit my party stage in high school- and it died in high school. I rarely party because I've seen enough of it-unless it's a special occasion. Some people grow out of doing the same thing over and over again- maybe the future wife has this mindset, too?
I'm sick of reading blind advice and "statistics"- Statistics? I want to know who the losers are that calculate this. People who are in fear of separation go to these resources and usually come back from reading them "tainted", and that's what gets the snowball rolling in the first place.
I say ignore all the negative crits here since you obviously came here for outside input that I doubt will change your mind.
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