To the original poster:
- Are you confident in your personal identity, preferences and goals in life? (i.e. know yourself well?)
- Can you say the same thing about your fiancee? (You know her very well too?)
- Are you confident in your maturity and ability to handle temptations (sexual and otherwise) and problems that will come over your years together?
- Are you really ready to settle down and raise children for the next 20 years with this person? (Always a possibility ...)
- Do you love this girl for her looks and her body, or for her personality, work ethic and positive qualities?
If you are prepared to deal with all of those as a man, then you are ready for marriage. Most people at age 19 need more time to grow up, sort themselves out, etc before they are ready though. (24 yrs old here and not getting married for awhile still). People I know who married at 18-20 tend to be having a rough time right now, especially if kids came along quickly. DON'T get married when you are in large amounts of debt either!!! Money problems are a huge marriage wrecker.
Good luck to you and your fiancee.
