Originally posted by Arhethia:
Trust me when i say that if she likes going out now, then ur scrwed when she hits 21 and wants to enjoy her years.

Lets just say you are ok with this, then your digging the hole for a speration. Then if u don;t agree, then your digging another hole.




when i got married i was 24 and she was 21. we felt "old enough" and mature. she hadnt gone out much then and gotten the partying out of her system. fast forward five years and we are getting divorced and all she wants to do is go out with her friends all the time. making up for lost time i guess. we were much different then then we are now. we started dating when she was 18 and i was 21. she never had the chance to enjoy adulthood on her own and i missed out on my mid 20s partying

i know exactly how you feel, as well as everyone else here. my strong advice, put the marriage off for awhile. move in together. see if you guys can tolerate each other's presence everyday for a year or so. its waaaaay different when you live together TRUST ME! ask anyone! if things are bliss after a year or so then go for it. its much easier to do that than finding out the hard way that you made a mistake. what's the rush?? besides, it sucks saying youre a 20 year old divorcee.

but, youre gonna do what youre gonna do so good luck and cheers

Originally posted by Tourgasm:
Sometimes you can mess up a word so bad that spell check doens't know what the hell you're talking about.