do not take this as a personal insult aimed at either yourself or your fiance as it is not meant as such. rather, since you asked for an honest opinion i am going to give just that.
you are still a baby barely out of diapers. she is still a baby still out of diapers. neither of you is anywhere near actually being a fully grown adult ready for a lifetime commitment to one person come hell or high water. the people you are today are not the people you will be in ten or even five years from now. i am not saying you do not care about each other but you but you most certainly are not 100% completely and totally in love with each other due to your very very young ages. mind you i do not mean in love like what people today say to each other because it is expected, rather i mean you would gladly swim across shark infested waters to bring her a glass of lemonade in love with each other. i'm talkin about hanging gardens of babylon and taj mahal in love with each other. set the wedding day a few years off and give yourselves a little time to grow first. marriage is costly but divorce is even more so.
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"Nothing in the world is more dangerous than a sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity." -Martin Luther King, Jr.
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