pdx...what your saying makes sencse but,my problem was/is we were together when she left,i was supp. move down a month after she got settled,ya know,so we both werent hunting for jobs at the same time..of course she realized she didnt need me and told me not to bother coming down...so i couldnt of made a court order here,other wise i would've had a stay,so she couldnt leave the state with my daughter without my permision.....the problems not so much her anymore,i can see daryn anytime i want with or withhout notice,i stay at her house,we get along great,etc..btw she doesnt get any assistance from the gov't,her parents own a house down in nc,her and her sister live in it for free,while her parents live back here in ny
