Actually people on this board are more than helpful... but East Great Lakes is like a fraternity.
You have to earn some respect w/in the group... and not being able to put up with crap is a good way to earn no respect.
Then after a while you can start making fun of steeda's mom and then you can be cool like the rest of us.
We have a wealth of knowlege in this area between all the people that have done engine swaps, turbo'd cars, done general maintenace and overall brilliant people like myself.
So man up... calm down.. and have some fun... lifes too short to be grumpy like the rest of us.
Oh... and get more people together and convince me to buy the dealer SCT software and I can tune your car