There are way too many words to even consider leeting it go, too many predjudices to consider.
Bad words are bad for a reason. I'm sure 98% of them were made up just to be that...bad.
Look at words like Faggot, Do you really think 100% of homosexuals will just say OK, It's a good word now...
Beaner
The Almighty "N" work...Good luck getting that one accepted
Mike, you seem like an intelligent guy.....I don't know if you do drugs,but if not maybe it's an option for someone in your case...