IMO, I hate ABS. If the car's stopping fine, and there's nothing wrong with the mechanics of your brake system, then let that stupid light do whatever it wants. Sorry, I know that doesn't help you, but it's what I would do.
~Eric
2000 CSVT Silver Frost: #942 of 2150
HID Projectors and Fog Light Mod, Optomized TB, MSDS headers
2003 Silverstone Z