Originally posted by FFE:
Try this on a sheet of paper(discard and burn when done if stay with girlfriend) make to lists labeled Pro's and Con's

If you feel the Cons are stronger than the pros Its time to pack up and leave, if the opposite you need to make a decision on how to make sure your happy in the relationship This is also the Basic idea of the Social Exchange theory ( Rewards of relationship - Cost of relationship = Profit )



IMO this works with most decisions, but not relationships. If your gut tells you you're not enjoying it, that'll never change, regardless of how "logical" it might be to stay.

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