well... here's the likely scenario..
you are sick of the relationship and/or her. instead of dealing with that consciously, it's manifesting itself in other ways, such as these actions towards her. you're driving her away without having to man up and either deal with it or dump her.
you need to evaluate if you want to continue this relationship or not, and commit to that decision.
02 Mustang GT... Tuned by Nelsons. Low 12's, anyone?

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