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Originally posted by MxRacer:
well... here's the likely scenario..
you are sick of the relationship and/or her. instead of dealing with that consciously, it's manifesting itself in other ways, such as these actions towards her. you're driving her away without having to man up and either deal with it or dump her.
you need to evaluate if you want to continue this relationship or not, and commit to that decision.
I agree with MxRacer,
Try this on a sheet of paper(discard and burn when done if stay with girlfriend) make to lists labeled Pro's and Con's
If you feel the Cons are stronger than the pros Its time to pack up and leave, if the opposite you need to make a decision on how to make sure your happy in the relationship This is also the Basic idea of the Social Exchange theory ( Rewards of relationship - Cost of relationship = Profit )
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Originally posted by MapOfTaziFoShoâ�??¢:
Originally posted by RTStabler51:
you are the reason why there are so many screwed up relationships. If you don't like her, break it off with her....after you PIIHB! 
ROFL
Yeah, break up with her, you aren't happy.  
Not to be mean. but you need to let her go. Dont do that to her she doesnt deserve to be treated like that. You are being up fair. But if you are scared to let her go just keep doing what you are doing and she will break up with you.
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You know what is really unfair Bill? You turned this girls life upside down, she left her home just so she could be with you! I hope you make the right decision on this one.
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Originally posted by FFE:
Try this on a sheet of paper(discard and burn when done if stay with girlfriend) make to lists labeled Pro's and Con's
If you feel the Cons are stronger than the pros Its time to pack up and leave, if the opposite you need to make a decision on how to make sure your happy in the relationship This is also the Basic idea of the Social Exchange theory ( Rewards of relationship - Cost of relationship = Profit )
IMO this works with most decisions, but not relationships. If your gut tells you you're not enjoying it, that'll never change, regardless of how "logical" it might be to stay.
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Cheat on her.
If you feel bad about it then you want to be with her
If you don't feel bad about it then you should end the relationship
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regardless of wanting to be in the relationship or not...you are an a$$hole. plain and simple. I'm no trying to insult you, im just making you aware. (if you want to insult me, pm me so neither of us get banned) But the things your doing are going way beyond...im not happy with her anymore...kinds of stuff. I think when someone plays games like yours...you are honestly NOT READY FOR A SEROUS RELATIONSHIP. So you know what, dont get into a relationship until you can tel yourself your ready and you aren't going to be an a$$ for no reason. I tip my hat to your girl for giving you chance after chance...youlucky she hasn't slapped you and walked off yet.
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Originally posted by Viss1:
Originally posted by FFE:
Try this on a sheet of paper(discard and burn when done if stay with girlfriend) make to lists labeled Pro's and Con's
If you feel the Cons are stronger than the pros Its time to pack up and leave, if the opposite you need to make a decision on how to make sure your happy in the relationship This is also the Basic idea of the Social Exchange theory ( Rewards of relationship - Cost of relationship = Profit )
IMO this works with most decisions, but not relationships. If your gut tells you you're not enjoying it, that'll never change, regardless of how "logical" it might be to stay.
Amen dude...
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Originally posted by SVTatGT:
Cheat on her.
If you feel bad about it then you want to be with her
If you don't feel bad about it then you should end the relationship
Thats bull. I could cheat and not feel bad about it and still care about another girl. Totally inaccurate.
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wow man
I would so not put up with that dramaqueen stuff that you're pulling. If I were her, I would have put you in your frickin place so fast, your head would still be spinning!
Sounds like you need a break away from her for a bit to think about what the hell is wrong with you.
Don't continue to lash out at her or dwell in that cranky mood, especially if you don't know the reason for it.
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ok, so he's not exactly handling this in the best of ways, he came here for help I'm assuming, so let's avoid bashing, mmk?
I agree with what most have said though, sounds like she isn't satisfying whatever desire you have in the relationship. maybe she looked good on paper, but after being in a relationship with her she just isn't the one for you. maybe you aren't getting laid enough, I dunno, but you either need to figure it out or spare her the misery of HER trying to figure it out
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