Remove the battery junction box lid (next to the battery.. the fuse box)
Have a friend turn the key to "on" (not start) and you listen in the hood for the ticking.
If its the fuel pump relay, it will be coming from the fuse box, next to the battery. there will be a row of 4(iirc) relays running from driver's side to passenger's side. Listen to those four when they turn the key.
Ray
