You're not trying to learn every little detail, & its not easy/perfect staying in any relationship! All women are somewhat different, different things upset them or make them happy, all you can do is wake up & hope for the best. Some days she might just want to argue, why, I don't know! The point is that all I want is one to try, talk back to me, let me know when I piss her off, or make her happy. You're reactions to what she does or says will have alot to do w/ what happens next!