For the 96 I would recommend a Focus header. It will have the spot for the EGR. Yes, every header will have to modified to fit.
Hector
2003 Rally Red Mitsubishi Evolution VIII
257HP/259TQ
2005 Lapis Blue Mazda 6s
RET: 00 Cabernet Red Ford Contour Zetec ATX SUPERCHARGED
160HP/141TQ