went to advance auto, here's wat I got:
manifold gasket set (should be upper/lower)
fuel pressure regulator
TB gasket
EGR gasket
PCV valve
(some of the stuff wont be there til friday though, picking up that morning, this totaled to $125 or so)
here's what they didn't have:
injector nose and upper injector O-rings
fuel rail - intake manifold seals
IMRC linkage grommets
UIM plastic retainer grommet
IAC gasket
guess I'll be going to the stealership tomorrow

but the guy at advance auto said some of it might come w/ the "manifold gasket set"