I think I have to cancel (I was a possible-only to begin with

). I now have three to four different things to do on that date in three different states, and a few of them aren't going to get done ... including this trip.
I'm so sorry ... really want to go to Maine, and I know you set this date months in advance, and I wanted to check out wildmatt's SVT as well as meet a few more people

.. but this particular weekend is just not going to work out.