Originally posted by lauraq:


This is always hard when women get it in their minds that they want to "destroy" their spouse. No one wins in the end when you really think about the expense of lawyers and all the emotional toll it takes on everyone.





Here, here, and that is a perfect description of what happened to our situation.

If all goes well today, I will be officially divorced (already have consent), and all items that were jointly owned will no longer bear my spouse's name by tomorrow.