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Seems like a fair number of people think that after high school you should have a year out before college.

I agree with this, many of the people I used to know did this. It's amazing how much people's choices change in that year too. A year of 'de-stress' helps clear thinking I think. This seems to be sound advice ... for those of you still in High School here.

Personally, I spent nearly a solid year sitting in the pub when I left school. Awesome times that I could never have done if I was a student, or working full-time then.


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Originally posted by Christian:
Seems like a fair number of people think that after high school you should have a year out before college.



Not sure if I agree. College is basically a continuation of high school these days. If you take a year off, you'll enter college with a different perspective than most other students. That might not be a bad thing, but it might make it tougher to identify with most of your peers.

Plus, what kind of "stress" does an 18 year old need to unwind from?

Finally, during that year off you'll probably be tempted to start working. Once you start making money, you'll be tempted to postpone college (this almost happened to me). Either that or you'll hate the real world so much you'll jump at the chance to go to college after a year

But I have no problem with the "sitting in a pub for a year" strategy. But I suggest that can also be done quite successfuly while IN college.


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Different people take stress differently. To some there is a great deal of stress in making a major life decision at the age of 18 ... what career they want to follow, without really know what it's all about. There's also stress about final exams, and the major life change of living away from home. Some deal with it better than others.
Not all, but some 18 year olds have a lot of trouble with the responsibility that is suddenly dumped on them at that age, and the future scares them. Suddenly the safety of being a child is pulled out from under their feet. Sometimes too parents don't help, I've seen cases where they will over-protect a child right until they turn 18 and then practically kick them out the day after as they are an 'adult'. If there's any level of this harshness it can really screw up a kid.

I agree that you would be at a different level after a year out, although this depends on what happens in the interim. From what I have seen though, it helps people to learn a little more fiscal responsibility, and if they get what can be termed a 'proper' job (i.e. not a McD's or something like the schoolies get) then it can really boost their social interaction abilites, and general life skills.

As for sitting in the pub .... the place I went for that year was nothing like any student's pub I've ever known!

Not sure how it works over here, but back in the UK when I was at that age, you could arrange your uni course just as if you were going straight in, but make it the following year. That way everything is sorted out, and the chance of postponing/not going is less.


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I would have moved away from Boston after graduating from college. Probably Florida or California or maybe Europe or Latin America. I would have definitely dragged Courtney with me, kicking and screaming, but I'd be much happier. I like Boston, but I hate winter. Snow is something you should visit, not live with.

But overall, I am very happy with the way life is going so far.


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Originally posted by SVT PETE:
Nothing.

I wouldn't be where I am today otherwise.





Originally posted by baco99:
But overall, I am very happy with the way life is going so far.





I pretty much agree with both of these. I don't dwell on the past, but I have to admit there's a few things I might have done differently, given a chance.

I would have studied harder in college.

I wouldn't have accepted the first job offer I got out of college. It wasn't exactly what I wanted and it put me on the wrong career path. I've finally gotten back on the right path (more or less) but I'm at least 5 years behind where I should be career-wise. OTOH, I would never have met all the friends that I made along the way.

I would have used credit cards more wisely. I'm getting it paid down but that debt is going to dog me for a long time to come.

I would have bought the CSVT in the showroom instead of the ZX2.

I would have bought the CSVT in the showroom instead of the SE.

Although it's something I had no control over, I wish I had met my wife sooner so we could have started our family earlier. I'm going to be 60 when my youngest kid starts college.


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Originally posted by MxRacerCam:
Originally posted by Thinkmoto:
If you could do "it" over again....I wouldn't do anything differently. My life has finally came around to where I can say I am truelly happy and I wouldn't change anything for that. I am who I am from what I have experienced and I wouldn't change a thing.





i agree. and i'm faster than you.




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