I'm not sure. I would do college differently, maybe not go right out of high school. I had no goals and nothing that I really wanted to do, so I wasted a lot of time and tuition (worked and put myself through college). I have a BS now, but at (nearly) 35 haven't really found my work niche or anything that I really like/ care about or am good at.

EXCEPT being a father ! I love my wife and kids and love most aspects of our life ! I just wish I could provide for them better. We are looking at probably moving out of New England so that we can afford a home. Which means a new job, new location, no family, etc. But kids need to have a home, and my in-laws aren't really that much help anyway.

I would definitely be better with money in my single days, and would have not come into a marriage with debt.

EDIT - I was looking over some of the other posts, and I agree that the choices and experiences in our past make us into who we are today. I just truly have some regrets, mainly involving money. I guess that part of myself and who I am I don't like. And I just can't quite seem repair the damage and move on, can't ever get ahead.

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