Contour Enthusiasts Group Archives Forums General Common Interests Need advice for my sister again!

except it isn't about cars, this is one !@&^# up situation, and I'm asking it on here, because I have no idea what to tell her

me and my sister are very close so she always comes to me and I always go to her when in need of help! anyways, this is a screwed up situation.. she recently got married, and is now having a kid... and from what the dr. said, its 90% chance its going to be a boy!...

now this is the screwed up part, the father wants the kid circumcized... (like father like son) whatever, normal thing... my sister tough, is one of those types of people.. where she sees everything as mutilation/cruality etc etc, espiecally with animals (declawing cats and all that crap)

she sees circumcizing as mutilation!?!??! so she doesn't want it done, but the father does.. so there in a pit with that, so she came to me?! and I have no idea what to tell her? I don't see how its anything wrong, they've been doing this procedure forever? and its like what 5 minuits? and I'm more for the father like son deal so I don't know what to tell my sister, she just keeps going on about it being mutilation and it should be the babies choice, and when hes old enough he can do it himself blah blah blah......

ahh someone help me? what should I tell her!

Oh btw on a sidenote... I sold the contour for 500 bucks 2 days ago! looking for another one (as a beater)

Though I can't try to "win her over" on this one:

the procedure has virtually no "down-time" for an infant vs. the 2-3 weeks of down time for an adult. This is due to the inability of the infant male to become erect. That is a MAJOR no-no for the adult male to do, not to mention painful.

The procedure is of "little" pain, and the pain will not be remembered by the infant. vs an adult remembering the pain for the rest of his life.

Curcumsized males lead less chance of infection, odor, and "in general" have cleaner genitalia. (not to say those who aren't circumsized CAN'T keep it clean.. its just a little more work, is all. pair that up to a lazy guy and its got trouble written all over it.)

Ray

^hence the term, cheese dick. LOL.. just buggin no offence to anyone who is not.

anyways yeah well said, I'm going to try to explain the whole, it will be worse when hes older ordeal? my friend got it done at 13 (his parents were cruel) they did it at that age specificly so he couldnt go @#&@ with girls.. he just sat in his house for a month...

so yeah thanks!

OUCH!!

Ya i can't imagine it being done later, sounds like alot of prob and alot of pain! get it done now!

The little research I've done in the past tells me that circumcision cuts off nearly half the sensitive nerve endings on a penis, as well as natural head desensitizing (since it's got no hood anymore). I personally am not happy for not having been given the choice over circumcision, since my parents ordered it done when I was born. (Given the choice, I wouldn't have had it done to me ever ... I'm on your sister's side). You also run the risk of being cut too tight.

Food for thought (possibly not work safe for sexual language:)
http://www.fathermag.com/health/circ/restore/rio/01/

my san had his done,like ray said it takes like 5 minutes,and its done.....your sis has some lame reasons for not getting it done,the father wants it and i understand why.....

Circumcision is wrong and should be outlawed except for pointless religious reasons.

Proper pecker care will take care of any odor or cheese issues. The reasons for circumcision are old wives tales and not medically necessary.

just tell her that chix dont dig guys with dix that look like shriveled up worms.

plus its better personal hygene for reasons mentioned above.
ive also read that retained foreskin can stunt the growth. does she really want him to have a small pecker?