Originally posted by ZetecNinja:
You are a strong man.



Strong man? To forgive and forget?

She bled her heart out to you dude. She gave you a piece of her that she probably hasn't shared with many other people. She didn't know you then, she wasn't perfect then, and neither you or her are perfect now. The question that should be in your mind is this...

Can I trust this girl?

Is she one to cheat on you? Is she going to be looking for another "zing" outside your relationship if you were to get serious with her? Eh?

When she opened up to you, what did you do? Did you start feeling up the inside of her thigh thinking, Dang, this girl is easy or did you know deep inside that she was being honest with you? The reason I ask is this. What kind of guy are you? Can you accept that people have made mistakes in the past? Have you ever made a mistake?

I have a particular friend that had a not so "clean" past, and then she met who she was going to marry. He refused to be promiscuous with her and that drew her even closer to him. In other words, treat her right. Don't get in her pants until you're married, and let her know that you aren't like the guys in her past. But if you feel the least bit comfortable, talk to her about it. Get some major pre-marital counseling prior to heavy commitment, and be her friend. More than anything, be her friend. She will cherish you forever if you will simply be her friend. It wasn't easy for her to trust you to tell you what she told you.

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