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Originally posted by Corbett:
Originally posted by BURNTU2:
I'm 25, she is 20. A lot of her problems started when she went off to college. She did leave early and blow me off the first date, but I haven't had that problem on the other dates, as a matter of fact, she has blown this James guy off for me now. I like her, bottom line, I'm giving her the chance to prove things to me. Thanks guys!
I'll never understand why people come here for advise on love and then they don't take it. Whats the point of asking in the first place? 99% of the people here saaid to forget about her yet you choose to date her. 
I'm pretty much convinced that anyone who posts asking for advice is just trying to see if someone will give advice that matches the choices they're already going to make.
more like reassurance that what they're doing is ok.
sometimes I'll type out really long posts giving my opinion/advice and then I just think "bah, they're never going to learn from advice, the only way they'll learn is by falling flat on their faces" so I just delete it all.
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Originally posted by frenchblueC2:
I'm pretty much convinced that anyone who posts asking for advice is just trying to see if someone will give advice that matches the choices they're already going to make.
BINGO! Well said Kim.
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Originally posted by BURNTU2:
I'm 25, she is 20. A lot of her problems started when she went off to college. She did leave early and blow me off the first date, but I haven't had that problem on the other dates, as a matter of fact, she has blown this James guy off for me now. I like her, bottom line, I'm giving her the chance to prove things to me. Thanks guys!
Lotta blowin going on there for the "retired" nymph.....
....somebody had to say it  
Can we get a definition of nymph? She's 20, is it under or over 20 dudes?
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Originally posted by MxRacerCamXXXL:
Originally posted by Pre98:
I've found that some of the most important girls who've come and gone from my life were the ones who needed a bit of support. Whether it be best friends or dating, I've seen both. Out of my experience (which for everyone, is different) I was a Lesson Learned.
co-dependent much??
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Originally posted by KnuKonceptz:
Can we get a definition of nymph? She's 20, is it under or over 20 dudes?
If she says its under 20, it's well over 100. 
I'm with Kim. I think I'm just going to spectate on the CEG 'advice' threads from now on.
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Originally posted by Pre98:
Originally posted by my csvt:
good luck...you're gonna need it
Easy with the Han Solo dialogue.  
LMAO! good catch
Originally posted by Tourgasm:
Sometimes you can mess up a word so bad that spell check doens't know what the hell you're talking about.
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I think the Oracle said it best when she said "you've already made the choice Neo, you're just here to understand why." or somethin like that. I for one would not be able to get over the fact that my girl was a slut...especially when I would begin having strong feelings for her. And walking around in public knowing you may be in the room with 3 or 4 other people who banged the same chick. And having guys gossip about your new girl...[censored] that. You are a strong man.
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Originally posted by ZetecNinja:
You are a strong man.
Strong man? To forgive and forget?
She bled her heart out to you dude. She gave you a piece of her that she probably hasn't shared with many other people. She didn't know you then, she wasn't perfect then, and neither you or her are perfect now. The question that should be in your mind is this...
Can I trust this girl?
Is she one to cheat on you? Is she going to be looking for another "zing" outside your relationship if you were to get serious with her? Eh?
When she opened up to you, what did you do? Did you start feeling up the inside of her thigh thinking, Dang, this girl is easy or did you know deep inside that she was being honest with you? The reason I ask is this. What kind of guy are you? Can you accept that people have made mistakes in the past? Have you ever made a mistake?
I have a particular friend that had a not so "clean" past, and then she met who she was going to marry. He refused to be promiscuous with her and that drew her even closer to him. In other words, treat her right. Don't get in her pants until you're married, and let her know that you aren't like the guys in her past. But if you feel the least bit comfortable, talk to her about it. Get some major pre-marital counseling prior to heavy commitment, and be her friend. More than anything, be her friend. She will cherish you forever if you will simply be her friend. It wasn't easy for her to trust you to tell you what she told you.
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Originally posted by BURNTU2:
I'm 25, she is 20. A lot of her problems started when she went off to college.
Pretty common. So she's been a bit of a ho for about 2 years then. That in and of itself doesn't seem like a huge deal as long as she recognizes it now.
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Yeah well, no blind date part3 now. I was to meet her today for lunch at 12, and she asked me if James could come too. She said she wanted me to meet him and see if I approved of him. Guess I'm on that damn friends ladder with her. Funny how she's been flirting and talking bout a relationship with me, now all of a sudden she's drawn the line saying we are just friends. Yeah, it's time to run, this chick must be Bi-Polar. Oh well, it made good entertainment, eh?
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