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Wait, your friend set you up with this girl, right? Why did your buddy set you up with a girl who admits having sex with a lot of guys in the past?  On topic, just recently I experienced this with a girl, and it was all I could ever think about, and things went so downhill that we talk maybe once a week now. But that's my experience, and could have nothing to do with this girl. Every persons different, listen to what she said and think about it for a couple days, think about whether or not you can handle knowing she used to be like that, and that you can accept the fact that she has changed and believe her. 'Cause if you doubt yourself in the slightest, you're just going to distrust her all the time and think about it, and maybe even bring it up in a fight, which is the worst idea if you want to be with this girl for a while. But that's just my opinion, and I'm not even 19 yet, what do I know? 
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Originally posted by ALIAS Jerk:
my girlfriend had a bad past, Im not going to bring up anything that has happened to her, because im sure she doesnt want me saying everything, but I love her just the same. She has changed her way and habbits. if this girl you have a thing for has changed then dont judge them for their past. What matters is your time with her, and not who did what with whom in the past, because the past is done, worrying about the past will just make things worse... Ive gotten in trouble with my girlfriend a few times worrying about it. But its all good now. Give her a chance buddy, she deserves it. Her past was before you knew it, so you know her for who she is now, and there is a LOW chance she will get back into that. Especially if she starts to love you, because she wont want to hurt you, as you wont want to hurt her. All I can say buddy, is go for it. If it feels right, and you two have a thing for each other. Then you shouldnt see anything wrong with seeing her more.
I'm Glad LOVE sick 16yr olds give advice!!!
Get your balls out of your GF's purse alias.
Here let me tell you what i did at that age.
HI im Kanakry I play Football and the #3 Ski racer in the UP wanna [censored]? its a fifty fifty shot! After being in the Air Force i have settled down quite a bit.
High School People shouldn't give relationship advice, Especially since you love them sooooooooooooo much..
My advice about this chick is bang the [censored] out of her, While playin 2 live crew me so horny in the back ground then "accidently" lose her phone number..
Ohh PS double wrap that [censored]!
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Originally posted by Stazi:
Did some of you guys have amnesia since last week?
Let's recap - She up and bailed when some dude called her while on a date. My bet was she went and fugged this guys brainsd out so her saying her past is her past is a line of sh!t.
If you wanna become another one of her stats then do so, but don't get involved with her emotionally.
I personally could not consider seriously dating a chick that has seen more pricks than a secondhand dartboard!
"You can't turn a ho into a housewife!"
omg... if that's the same chick, i'd bail. or piitb, then bail.
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Oops. Didn't know it was the same gal.
Bail. The baggage is starting to pile up...
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Originally posted by Stazi:
Let's recap - She up and bailed when some dude called her while on a date. My bet was she went and fugged this guys brainsd out so her saying her past is her past is a line of sh!t.
I figured this was a different dude. I can't imagine what kind of self-respecting guy would talk to a girl again after she did something like that on a FIRST date!!! Stazi is on-point: her nymphomania is not in her 'past', anyone with half a brain can figure out that was a booty call she got. She wants you to fulfill her emotional needs, we've all seen this a billion times. When you find out you're just a shoulder to cry on, you'll be disappointed.
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Just remember the players mantra:
You can't turn a whore into a housewife.
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Have you gotten any yet?
Maybe she opened up to you because she considers you someone she can trust & a "friend"...now that she has spewed her guts to you, she may never be able to take that step w/ you. She's probably has you figured for a push-over anyway, seeing how she bailed on your first date & you, more than likely, didn't say anything to her about it.
just being realistic...don't take it as an insult
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Originally posted by BURNTU2:
Hopefully I'll get some serious answers from you guys and not just smart azz remarks.
Hey man Maybe some of us are being just a bit too blunt here. I went back to your other post and reread what I said, I wasn't trying to be a smartass and I apoligize if I came across that way. I made a statement based on experience, b/c i've been there, other than the leaving on the first date. Basically a girl that slept around alot, & take my word for it you don't want to get into that. Most women that sleep around alot have self confidence issues, they do it so that they feel wanted. This will not go away!! She might stop sleeping around but then you've got a depressed woman walking around looking for a purpose. I know that you will show her all the attetion you can but one day your gonna be pissed and you guys are gonna fight and then she's gonna run to the first guy she meets and..... you know the rest. Take our words for it You are being warned and if you decide to start a relationship anyway I wish you the best of luck! Since I've been there I'll just say prepare yourself for heartbreak.
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Seriously. She bolted your first date to go visit some other guy. I don't think she's fully "recovered". Run from that. Even if you dig her & try to make it work, there will always be the knowlege of her past, & that will give you a constant nagging doubt that will eventually make you crazy.
Thank her for her time, honesty, wish her luck, & move on.
Must be that jumbly-wumbly thing happening again.
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Originally posted by BURNTU2:
Hopefully I'll get some serious answers from you guys and not just smart azz remarks. Would you consider dating a "recovering nymph"? She says her life has done a 180, she's been tested and is clean, the past is in the past. Everybody deserves a second chance, right? My blind date went very well, we have now gone out four times and are considering dating and a possible relationship down the road. She just confessed her wild past to me tonight, what a surprise and shock. She cried and wouldn't look at me after telling me her horrible past. We are both attracted to each other and not just sexually. I'm very bothered and hurt by her past, but I think I can get over it and try this with her. Any advice?
Her name isn't Alicia, is it? 
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