lol, ya, went to the local carquest. Also stopped into an Advance Auto and called Bill Jenkins assistant mike, and he wasn't able to find a part # or even the little grommet I'm looking for at all.
Closest thing I've found is here:
http://www.mrgusa.com/pdfs/24-27grmet.pdf
Its just that the grommets in the old door look so much more heavy duty than these.