Originally posted by 98cont-UoG-FSAE:
I've been dating my g/f for 7 years now and there are always good times and crappy ones. I'd say if you still love her, it's worth it to try to keep her. BUT, if you're still paying half of everything and you can't even get inside your own place that you share, it might be time to let her pay all the bills and move on. At 7 weeks or more, either she lets you in, or you take your things and your money somewhere else.

I think you need just one solid talk with her. Find out her intentions, and tell her your intentions/concerns/desires. If she is still leading you on and telling you she "needs more time", take a deep breath and tell her it's over.

Just my opinion.

Sean



Amen. you have been MORE than accomodating, paying but moving out etc. Try to have a sit down with her and hash this out; no arguing, just talking about what she and you want (you do know what you want right?). If after 7 weeks she doesn't "know" and needs more time, then I agree with Sean say goodbye and move on.

IMO, it sounds like she has already moved on. So be prepared.

Sorry that sucks ! GOOD LUCK !

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