So for about the past 6 months my GF and I have been having problems. We have been together for almost 6 years. We started having arguements more often, mostly about how much each person contributes (emotionaly and monitarily) to the relationship.
So we decided to take a break from each other. So I moved in with a friend for a 2 weeks. We continued to talk to one another. We saw each other once during the 2 weeks and it was a great day at the beach together.
After the two weeks, she says she is still not ready and wants another two weeks. So I say alright. Now at the end of the those two weeks she doesn't want to see me or talk to me. She won't answer when I call her cell phone, she cancelled the home phone, and changed the locks on the house. She said she needed time to herself to reflect on life and think about what she wants from life.
So now another 3 weeks later, I find out all she has been doing is partying. (She works only 4 days a weeks so Thursday, Friday, & Saturday she is out with friends.) And while not actually going on dates with guys (or bringing them home, or going home with them) she has been getting friendly with them while out partying.
Whole 7+ weeks I have still been paying half the rent and household bills.
We have had great times together, she is a great woman, and we do really care foe one another.....
So how does the situation look to everyone?
Thoughts/suggestions/advice.....
