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Originally posted by Stazi:
I agree. After all what cause married people to wander most of the time - lack of sex in the marriage! 
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Originally posted by Stazi:
Did you know that we are not so unique when it comes to sex?
Chimpanzees and Dolphins both have sex for fun and are also promiscuous. 
That's not what I meant by 'unique'.
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Originally posted by Davo:
Humans have three basic dimensions: psychological, biological, and spiritual (aka mind, body, spirit). Sex and sexual relationships are the only activities that involve all three at the same time.
no they're not.
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So why don't you tell us which others there are.
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What is the number 1 thing you here married guys complain about, on the radio, tv, to each other?
Yep, that when they get married the sex all but dies. There are jokes even made about it.
This lack of sexual satisfaction causes a crack to form in marriages. From there, men then start to resent their wives for becoming more frigid and hence they will start to act towards there wives in a less understanding and often condesending manner which effectively increases the rift between the couple and the domino effect continues.
What's the bet that if women had the same sex drive as men, the divorce rate would be lower as men would be more satisfied and therefore more emotionally connected to their wives.
No matter how "good" a christian, and a "good" guy, you think you are it's unavoidable that we are programmed to have sex and multiply, and when we are denied of that, we become disatisfied, and that leads to us looking for other mates.
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Originally posted by Davo:
So why don't you tell us which others there are.
yoga and meditation come to mind right off the top of my head. all-inclusive statements like yours only weaken your otherwise strong argument.
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Originally posted by Stazi:
What's the bet that if women had the same sex drive as men, the divorce rate would be lower as men would be more satisfied and therefore more emotionally connected to their wives.
That's a good laugh. The divorce rate would be much higher, as women would always be looking for someone else to have sex, and there would be two people creating 'cracks', not just one.
...don't try to blame divorce on womens' inability to sexually satisfy their husbands.
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Originally posted by Davo:
Originally posted by Stazi:
What's the bet that if women had the same sex drive as men, the divorce rate would be lower as men would be more satisfied and therefore more emotionally connected to their wives.
That's a good laugh. The divorce rate would be much higher, as women would always be looking for someone else to have sex, and there would be two people creating 'cracks', not just one.
...don't try to blame divorce on womens' inability to sexually satisfy their husbands.
The latest stat that I read is about 3/4's of all divorces are initiated by women.
Furthermore, you cannot convince me that all of those cheating husbands are going with single women. I'd say a good number of the ladies those cheating husbands are cheating with are in fact, cheating wives.
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Originally posted by MxRacerCam:
yoga and meditation come to mind right off the top of my head. all-inclusive statements like yours only weaken your otherwise strong argument.
Hmmm...I'd have to think about that, though I'm not too sure the physical aspect of those activities is adequately influential.
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Stazi, I think you hit the nail on the head with lack of sex, but the main point is missed in that statement. There is something causing that lack of sex. To attack the problem we need to attack the root of it, not just go find sex elsewhere.
As I eluded to earlier, we're hoping that we can help attack the root of the problem with a place that is going to be designated to providing information, education, and exploration for couples.
The main thing married guys forget is why the sex was there before the marriage. They were actually taking active parts in that relationship and giving the woman what she was craving emotionally. More often than not, those that complain have all but forgotten their roles in taking an active and productive part in that relationship and would rather complain than doing something proactive. As a good friend has often told me, there's nothing like doing a little housework to put a woman in a sexy mood. And he means us guys doing the housework.
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