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Originally posted by PackRat:
Originally posted by caltour:
Originally posted by PackRat:
Girls suck. Throw RPG's at them.
Ha. This sentiment has the world's shortest life span. It only lasts until the next girl turns her eyes toward you (which might be tomorrow). Then you'll go all mushy inside and you'll be posting about the adorable girl you met.
Show me a post where I have ever gone all "mushy" over a girl.
First you have to have a girl. 
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Originally posted by SalKhan:
Girls who play hard to get are the biggest waste of time on the planet. I put them below watching grass grow, paint dry, and watching Ben Affleck trying to act.
For the women reading this: KNOCK IT OFF!!
Sal, women can't help it. They are hard-wired to play hard to get. It is part of our mammalian genes. Just look at how a female cheetah makes her suitors chase her across the veldt. It is nature's way of ensuring that only a fit and steadfast male gets a chance at the female.
OK, back to modern America. Women makes us chase them for a lot of good reasons. First of all, they want to make sure we value them enough to pursue them for awhile. So even in modern times, it helps women to sort out the one-night-stand guys from the real suitors. It also gives them a chance to see our stuff; meaning, it gives them a chance to see how we react to a little adversity. If you get all bent out of shape, or if you wander away with your tail between your legs, they have learned something about you without having become vulnerable to you. See?
So give women a break. They are easily hurt; give them that space they need. Let them hold you off for as long as they need to. Use that time to show them how calm, cool and funny and mature you are. If she holds you off too long, move on.
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Originally posted by PackRat:
Originally posted by caltour:
Originally posted by PackRat:
Girls suck. Throw RPG's at them.
Ha. This sentiment has the world's shortest life span. It only lasts until the next girl turns her eyes toward you (which might be tomorrow). Then you'll go all mushy inside and you'll be posting about the adorable girl you met.
Show me a post where I have ever gone all "mushy" over a girl.
No, I didn't mean you posted that before (it's more like something I would do!). I was talking about the male species in general.
In the meantime, I should whack you and Sal upside yo haids until you start thinkin right.
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I bet your getting a BJ in a week!
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Originally posted by caltour:
Blah blah blah blah....
No NO..... NO!! This is how time AND money is wasted... feelings are hurt and stupid Punk Rock bands get formed. Giving them all that power is a huge mistake and it's how you turn into a pu$$y-whipped Douchebag.
Establish equivalence. Have sex as soon as possible so you're not wasting time with a bad lay. Get the baggage out of the way. Always find out the bad before all things because it'll always manifest itself infinitely worse as years pass on by. Bad always outweighs the good.... ("Cuz good is dumb!!") - Sorry had to slip that in there.
Women lie. It's not an indictment, just a truth. Learn to anticipate and accept it on certain levels.
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Well, second day/night with no phone call and no email still. If she doesn't contact me by Sunday I'm gonna forget about her. I thought the hug sealed the deal and I was "in" for sure. I'd think if she was that interested in me, she would have emailed or voicemailed me by now.
Yes I've only known her for two weeks. But when you spend 8 hours a day with that same person for 14 days, it's quite a bit of time.
I shoulda asked her if she had a b/f, I just assumed that she didn't because of how interested she seemed in me. Plus she never mentioned having one.
Somebody asked the age difference too, well its 7 years.
My gut feeling says I wont ever hear from her or see her again. Damn this sucks!
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Originally posted by SalKhan:
Women lie. It's not an indictment, just a truth. Learn to anticipate and accept it on certain levels.
the only part of your post i agree with. the rest is blah blah blah...
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Hey man, sometimes its natural to just hug a co-worker upon their leaving, without any further expectations. For example, when I resigned a job years ago, I gave a big hug to my secretary (she initiated it) but it was just a friendly "good bye" and there was never any implication of further involvement. She was married, and I wasn't the least bit interested in her sexually, but she was a friend nevertheless, and the hug was warranted, but I knew it was just a "going away" gesture.
Your friend has all the info she needs to contact you, but I agree with a lot of the guys that have said that she's busy getting ready for college, and once she gets in college, she's surrounded by guys her own age that live nearby. Going away to college is the great divide between high school and college age people.
Don't sweat it man, you're young, and have millions of girls to ponder a future with.
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Well my gf read the thread and she thinks your acting like a girl haha.
All guys have made this mistake at some point, But if you're 7 years older than a college kid, and you're just figuring out this [censored] now ... buddy, you will be, really, really depressed.
The hug didn't mean squat. Most likely it was a 'friends' hug. You're in the friends bin, or the friends ladder, whatever. You aren't jumping to the 'i'm gonna [censored] him' bin / ladder period. Especially acting pussywhipped and giving her your phone/email.
In the future, if you like somebody, be a straight shooter and ask them out, tell them you wanna [censored] straight and quick. If you like (and by like, I mean [censored]) a chick, do not ever, ever do anything that will make you 'friends'. If she declines, or whatever your advances, just stop talking to her, or ignore her, or whatever and you may have a shot if she's an attention whore, otherwise -- move on.
So much to teach .... so little time.
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I have given my phone number to a ton of girls, they have never called back though.....
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