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#1276128 05/13/05 06:06 AM
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Ok so this girl has been getting on the job training at my pharmacy for two weeks, today was her last day.
Durring the two weeks I've been totally flirting with her, and she's been flirting back. We talked so often on the job durring those two weeks that my boss had to repeatedly warn me to stop and get some work done.
Being her last day today, I bought her lunch, and walked her to her car afterwards and gave her a "goodbye" and "good luck with college" greeting card. I also included my cell number and email number inside it. Well it's now 11pm and no phone call from her, no email, nothing. I'm very dissapointed and think that if she doesn't contact me by Sunday night, I'm down the river. What's the general rule here, how many days can pass without her calling me until I know she's either not interested, or has a boyfriend already?
Some of my peeps say if she doesn't call in 3 days, I'm out.
I'm totally stressing over this to the point I already have a headache. I like this girl a ton, but Day/Night 1 has passed and no contact yet



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I say wait a week.


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dude wtf? havent you seen Swingers?! the industry standard is THREE days!! of course, we wait seven.

dude, no girl in her right mind will call you the same day, or even likely the next day. if its as good as you think it is, she'll call. if not, meh, forget it and move on.


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So this gurl is going to college?? Well my guess is that she is getting ready to leave, unless she is going to a school close to home, but if she is going a great distance anyway, give her sometime more then 3 days, she has to coop with leaving and get settled into her new place. If she is staying "in town" give it 3 - 5 days, if after that its best to move on. If you like her so much how come you didn't just ask her when you walked her out to her car. Was she going to come back to work there any time soon? Just my .02 cents.


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i gave a girl my # she still hasnt called it.. and i dont know her #..


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I forgot to add something. After walking her to her car, she asked me, "can I have a hug". So we totally hugged. I would think that's a sure sign that she'll stay in touch with me? I hope

Oh and the college she's going to, its only 45 minutes from here.


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In that case give her more then 3 days. I would say about a week. Dude, you should have taken the opp and asked her, she left the door wide open for you to ask. Lifes short take all the chances you can!


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Like right now u need to "man up". And stop killing yourself, over if she should call or not. Who cares if she does or doesn't. U are just stressing yourself out over a girl u jsut met 2 weeks ago. Lsiten to your self 2 weeks uago u where fine without her and now u are sounding crazy.

The lunch thing good idea.
The card bad bad . You are a guy not a girl. You should of sucked it in a asked for her number yourself. Not given it on a card. Come on!!

Just go on with your life and act as if you never met her or you will just make your self sick till then.


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#1276136 05/13/05 06:19 AM
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Originally posted by RobertD:
If you like her so much how come you didn't just ask her when you walked her out to her car. Was she going to come back to work there any time soon?




She won't be back to work at my pharmacy again. It was just a two week deal through some ROP program.

I shoulda asked her when I walked her to her car. I didn't want to put pressure on her or make her feel obligated to say "yes". I guess that was a mistake on my part, I screwed up. I still hope she calls. At least I have access to prozac if she doesn't. Im gonna be hella sad.


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Originally posted by BURNTU2:
So we totally hugged.




totally?!?!...dude you're so in

give it a couple days she'll call, trust me


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