OK, I checked out a wiring book from the library, not vehicle specific, just a general electric book.
In the book it said to disconnect the neg batery cable and put a test light between the disconnected cable and the neg battery post, the light came on and it wasn't suppose to. it then says to disconnect alternator wires to see if the light goes off. disconnected the wires from the screw termainal and the large quick connect and still have power between the cable and the battery post. can not easily get the small 1 wire quick connect off or I would have tried that one to. It then recomends removing fuses til the light goes off. removed the fuses I thought would be the problem, but the test light still lights between the disconnected cable and the neg battery post.
Any sugestions would be worth a try at this point. I am friggin frustrated. Anyone think maybe the megafuse could be the prob? If I can find it I will check it.