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Originally posted by JaTo:
I had the luck and blessing of running across someone that was my equal or better in every way and someone that was (and still is to this day) a constantly pleasant surprise; stunningly beautiful, very classy, intelligent, experienced, accomplished and wise, delicate yet tough as Hell, headstrong yet pensive and flexible when the time called for it. Out of it all, she didn't BS; she called it like she saw it, which was a totally alien experience I've ever had with the opposite sex.
Damn, JaTo, when'd you start dating my fiancee! :-)
Honestly, the girl I'm about to marry (5/21!!) is pretty much exactly how JaTo describes her.
But, this is the difference between a girl and a woman, and it sounds like you need to stop with the girls and get yerself a real woman. :-)
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Monogamy? Heck all this time I was thinking that having one girl was monotony! Better get out the dictionary on this one.  Seriously though, if you aren't impressed by girls maybe you should have your testosterone level checked, you might be down a quart.
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A famous philosopher once said:
"I treat a [censored] like 7-Up: Never have, never will."
Aaaaw yeaaaaah.
Remember, always marry for power or money.
Sal Khan
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I'm a bit younger (21), but i believe i have always had a pretty good grasp on my life. I did the same thing, i thought it was pointless to waste time with a relationship that would go nowhere. I dated a girl off an on and really didnt have the maturity to realize she was perfect for me. Anyways I am really happy and led a very similar path as you have. I would suggest you do not lose hope, because quality girls are really out there
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sorry bro but all the things I've seen here lead me to 1 conclusion:
1) no females impress you
2) you would be pleasently surprised w/ a dozen roses
3) your pic
synopsis...dude your a peep toucher. you LOVE tha c0(k
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MY TAKE ON YOUR PROBLEM: I don't understand your problem! It sounds like you live a great life for a 25 year old. Seriously man there is no true happiness, think about what you are starting to search for. Eventually when you are in a long relationship you are gonna want to go back to being single because it is fun to have lots of different pink. Quit being sad over nothing, the right girl will snatch you up soon enough, and then in two years you are gonna wanna be single again, cause you have had the same girl and now you want new stuff cause there is tons of hotass walking around. There is no good answer. MY PROBLEM: My problem is that every girl I have dated are really good girls and then I stay with them too long. I am only 23 and have been in a 10 month, 3 year, a few 3 months, and am currently in a just over 2 years relationship. I have been pretty much taken since I was [censored] 16. I am not saying I am unhappy but I would like for a girl to dump me once in a while. I mean I want to increase my # before I get married. So again there is no good answer, just try and be happy with what you got, cause it sounds like you got it good!
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Originally posted by SalKhan:
A famous philosopher once said:
"I treat a [censored] like 7-Up: Never have, never will."
Aaaaw yeaaaaah.
Remember, always marry for power or money.
Wow. Some gal must have SERIOUSLY [censored] you over emotionally for such a jaundiced view of relationships.
I'll give you that at least half of the women I've dated were complete space-shots, emotional wrecks or just plain nuts with enough real and imagined psychological baggage to fill an ocean-going freight tanker, but there are drop-dead lookers that have brains and good measure of emotional stability out there. Yes, they are a rare breed, I will admit...
It's just a matter of taking that intial risk again and trying to find them.
To each his own, though.
JaTo
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I'm not real good with girls, and I'm sure you will find the right one, one of these days, I'm sure I will, to tell the truth I have never had a real girlfriend, I had friends back in high school that were girls, but thats it.
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Originally posted by hrsepwrdrms:
in two years you are gonna wanna be single again, cause you have had the same girl and now you want new stuff cause there is tons of hotass walking around.
I wonder if this is going to happen to me. I am currently in an 11 month relationship. 
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Originally posted by mystique97:
...to tell the truth I have never had a real girlfriend
My longest relationship has been three months. It was ended by her for stupid 21-year-old reasons. Almost all the others, however, have been ended by me. I get bored VERY quickly and want to move on, oftentimes before we're ever actually IN the relationship. I'm waiting for a girl to capture my interest and keep me on my toes.
People tell me I'm too picky and that I'm afraid of committment. I halfway agree with them. I am picky. I know what I want and I don't want to settle for anything if it's going to last longer than a couple months. I've been told that it's all about compromising and blah blah blah. I strongly disagree. I will find someone who's perfect for me. Not now, hopefully. But I will.
I'm not, however, afraid of committment. I know I don't want a committment and I don't hesitate to act on that wish. People who are afraid of committment desire a committment, but can't seem to make them work due to their own insecurities. That's not me. I just straight-up don't want one because I'm living it up right now.
This whole deal isn't me griping about not finding the right girl. I meet a new "Ms. Right Now" every week. I wouldn't have it any other way. I was only speculating on the future when I do decide that I want something to last.
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