Originally posted by infuryum:
Originally posted by 99SESPORT:
My suggestion? quit dating, quit looking, and get on with your life. Don't worry about it, pray about it, but don't seek a mate out. She'll pop up at the right time/place... Put your trust in God and believe that he will bring your wife to you when it is time for it....


See, that's just it. The last thing I want is a wife or a committed relationship. I don't seek anyone out. I just run into them, but they're all the same. I'm just wondering what happens when the time comes. If I'm jaded now, what happens then?

I guess, yeah, I've heard that she'll just appear out of nowhere and knock me on my butt. I just don't see it happening.



Chances are, if you're a player, the girls know it. And the "good" girls (the ones that will knock you on your ass) are, more often than not, likely avoiding you, leaving you with the girls who don't have a problem with you being a player and are probably rather... promiscuous their own selves.

If you surround yourself with women like that chances are that you're not going to find that "one" because it would seem that's not the type of women that you really want, which is why you feel the way you do. That's not to say that you won't, just that it would be harder.

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