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Originally posted by infuryum:
I guess, yeah, I've heard that she'll just appear out of nowhere and knock me on my butt. I just don't see it happening.
Thats the whole thing, you don't see it happening and it does.
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Josh, I think ideally what you want is a nice woman but you are surrounded by college girls. I am in a similar situation as you, I'm 24 just finishing m, undergrad now and all the girls are younger. I get along and find the majority of my sisters friend (whom are in their late 20's) much more appealing than most college whores.
My advice: Keep playin' and don't worry about it, you got a lot of time left (not like we die when we are 35 anymore) and there are plenty of women out there waiting for ya.
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Originally posted by infuryum:
Originally posted by 99SESPORT:
My suggestion? quit dating, quit looking, and get on with your life. Don't worry about it, pray about it, but don't seek a mate out. She'll pop up at the right time/place... Put your trust in God and believe that he will bring your wife to you when it is time for it....
See, that's just it. The last thing I want is a wife or a committed relationship. I don't seek anyone out. I just run into them, but they're all the same. I'm just wondering what happens when the time comes. If I'm jaded now, what happens then?
I guess, yeah, I've heard that she'll just appear out of nowhere and knock me on my butt. I just don't see it happening.
Chances are, if you're a player, the girls know it. And the "good" girls (the ones that will knock you on your ass) are, more often than not, likely avoiding you, leaving you with the girls who don't have a problem with you being a player and are probably rather... promiscuous their own selves.
If you surround yourself with women like that chances are that you're not going to find that "one" because it would seem that's not the type of women that you really want, which is why you feel the way you do. That's not to say that you won't, just that it would be harder.
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Originally posted by sigma:
Originally posted by infuryum:
Originally posted by 99SESPORT:
My suggestion? quit dating, quit looking, and get on with your life. Don't worry about it, pray about it, but don't seek a mate out. She'll pop up at the right time/place... Put your trust in God and believe that he will bring your wife to you when it is time for it....
See, that's just it. The last thing I want is a wife or a committed relationship. I don't seek anyone out. I just run into them, but they're all the same. I'm just wondering what happens when the time comes. If I'm jaded now, what happens then?
I guess, yeah, I've heard that she'll just appear out of nowhere and knock me on my butt. I just don't see it happening.
Chances are, if you're a player, the girls know it. And the "good" girls (the ones that will knock you on your ass) are, more often than not, likely avoiding you, leaving you with the girls who don't have a problem with you being a player and are probably rather... promiscuous their own selves.
If you surround yourself with women like that chances are that you're not going to find that "one" because it would seem that's not the type of women that you really want, which is why you feel the way you do. That's not to say that you won't, just that it would be harder.
Maybe it's the way you dress on dates. Post a pic of your typical Friday night attire for us to critique.
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Originally posted by infuryum:
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You look like a gay lumberjack 
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LMAO at picture!
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On a more serious note, take your time and don't worry about it too much. Someone will most likely come along when you least expect it and knock you on your ass.
You'll know it when it happens.
I never had to chase gals in high school or college (the only exception to this is my wife); for a number of reasons they fell into my lap. It wasn't until I met a particular Spanish lady late in college that I discovered the difference between a "girl" and a "woman". I dated plenty of girls and yes, they were fun, but most were missing a key element or two that would hold my interest and keep me captivated. The "club gals" and "party gals" were a load of fun out on the town and in the sack, but I'd end up slitting my wrists having to put up with their baggage and complete lack of intelligence for the most part. Past the physical attraction, there wasn't much else to base a lasting relationship on and let me tell you, if you're looking long-term, there better be a HELL OF A LOT MORE to a woman than just a pretty face and a nice rack.
I had the luck and blessing of running across someone that was my equal or better in every way and someone that was (and still is to this day) a constantly pleasant surprise; stunningly beautiful, very classy, intelligent, experienced, accomplished and wise, delicate yet tough as Hell, headstrong yet pensive and flexible when the time called for it. Out of it all, she didn't BS; she called it like she saw it, which was a totally alien experience I've ever had with the opposite sex. I chased this dame like no tomorrow because I KNEW I'd regret it for the rest of my life if I didn't.
They are few and far between, but they ARE out there. You're most likely not going to run into them at bars or clubs, though. I'm banking that you are looking in the wrong places. It's kind of like holding the expectation that you'll run across a diamond in a sewer; you don't usually find them hanging out there, but I must admit that you occasionally do, though.
Don't ask me where you find them, either: my wife ran into me through a friend that knew I could help her out with a headlight problem on her car. Luck or destiny was my saving grace.
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maybe chicks just arent doing it for you. maybe you should give dudes a try. apparently Goonz is experimenting.... 
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Originally posted by svt4stv:
...apparently Goonz is experimenting....
Thanks for all the cool replies. All of it makes sense and it's something we all should have heard by now. You can't make it happen, but you'd better be in good practice when it comes along. 
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