Ray, i owe you a great debt or gratitude. I feared that i would have to take it into a shop and dole out the 450-1000 that some of the guys were quoting. But the fix took me 20 min, and NO CASH.
For anyone having the same issue, get under the car and look near the firewall in the center, you should see 2 mesh covered cables, they terminate just on the drivers side of the top of the trans(orange and black connectors). Make sure that both of those connectors are perpendiculary(not sure if thats a word) affixed to the metal rods. I just popped the deliquesnt one back on, and i can shift again.