-if you really truely love your wife then this woman means nothing more to you than a cozy place to store jr for the night.
-the fact that you let things go this far means there is something wrong with your marriage
-honor and honesty demand you fess up, logic says otherwise so take your pick
-ANY physical contact of ANY kind you have with her, considering your feelings, is absolutely inappropriate
-if you are willing to be honest here then you are not looking for a friendship with this siren. you are, however, willing to settle for a friendship until the right time comes along to get wath you really want.
-every man (person) has finite breaking point. the way you are talking there is absolutely no way you are going to be able maintain your honor and contact with her. one of those two components will fail.
-posting this on the internet instead of talking to your wife says that there are serious problems in your relationship with your wife and i doubt she will understand that total strangers are privy to your thoughts and desires when she is not.
-if you want a behavioral guideline the try this: do nothing with this girl that you could not do in front of your wife, a preacher and the congregation in church on sunday morning.

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