99SESPORT make a good point. I would tell my wife (I know not for this reason) because I would be sure that she has thought about other men but has never acted on it nor has the thought lasted for more than a second. Like I said I believe in having an open relationship with people and communication is key. On the other hand it might do no good to start out by telling her this and only tell her if she asks what prompted you to work on the marriage. I mean what good can it do to let her know you had feelings for another woman? Still you should trust each other enough to have this conversation, IMO.

About being kept accountable, I say that is one of the best ideas. I don't think CEG is the place because we don't really know you. You need a good friend that you trust to keep you accountable. If it's not your wife it better be someone damn close to you. Good Luck mang and it was a good idea to not do anything thing with this Asian wonder.

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