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Originally posted by infuryum:
I still think we should see pictures to make an accurate determination.
You just want to wank, you wanker.
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Think about your wife in your shoes. What if there is a guy at her work and so on and so forth. That alone should make you want to focus on your marriage and stay away from the girl at work. The fact that you even considered it and posted about it doesnt say alot for your character either.
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stock hp is never enough
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personally, i think discussing this with your wife is bad advice. if you really need to work on things then just have a sit-down and go to marriage counseling. no good can come about of you telling her about your "feelings" for another woman i dont know if the people who are advising you to do this are married or just have girlfriends, but as a married man i advise against it. as with most things in life, it does make a difference if you have experience or are merely hypothesising.. once you tell her you CANT go back. if you decide to tell her later then you'll still have that option. heck, you can even be proud about how you didn't do anything and just walked away (presuming you do). i see many people in here telling you to discuss this with her, which i highly advise against. I say just get over it and work on your marriage if it needs it. let's see what other people think, anonymously, based on their status. ps if you think that his wife will be happy that he shared this information with her you have a LOT to learn about women. 
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Sometimes you can mess up a word so bad that spell check doens't know what the hell you're talking about.
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My girl says don't tell her. Just get working on the marriage, but don't tell her.
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Screw it act on your new "love" get a divorce hook up with the lady. maybe she'll dump your ass to the curb after the one night stand. Then see if your "ex-wife" will take you back. I feel sorry for your wife caltour.
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You may need to tell her as you posted the details on the internet. Your wife may find out. If she finds out from someone else, you will be in real deep doodoo.
You must of been looking to find another, so you need to work out the relationship with your wife and get it right.
I've been married 27 years. Your present state of mind, is in my eyes, cheating already (cheating emotionally). You need to get it straightened out. If you are religious, try talking to a member of the clergy first. It may help you clear up your thoughts.
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I guess after thinking about it I wouldn't say anything to my wife either, but I would start putting a little work into the marriage.
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Why wouldn't you say anything to your wife?
I've been married to my wife for five years and wouldn't dream of keeping this from my wife.
If you care about your relationship, if you care about it at all, then talk to SOMEBODY!!! A priest, a pastor, a counselor, a GOOD FRIEND...Somebody that can keep you accountable. You obviously need it if it has come to this point.
Don't screw up your marriage over some stupid bimbo at the office. Like I said before, get out of the job, leave the workplace, ask for a transfer, just don't spend any more time with this woman.
You shouldn't even talk to her anymore. That good little feeling you are getting is probably something akin to the emotional high that guys get when they look at pornography. You keep wanting it, regardless of how bad it is for you. Like I said man, you shouldn't even be talking to her anymore. Drop her like the fireball she is, before she burns more than just your eyes. I don't care how pretty she is, how nice she is, how wonderful she is, it doesn't matter. The grass ain't any greener on her side of the fence than it is on your side...
GET OUT and GET OUT NOW!!
Talk to somebody about it, whether it be your wife, your pastor, anybody!! Just get somebody in there that can help you through this, and support you and keep you accountable...
By the way, Infuryum, I know you better than that. You will get married someday....You talk too much about it...
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C'mon, man... I have a reputation to keep up! 
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