You may need to tell her as you posted the details on the internet. Your wife may find out. If she finds out from someone else, you will be in real deep doodoo.

You must of been looking to find another, so you need to work out the relationship with your wife and get it right.

I've been married 27 years. Your present state of mind, is in my eyes, cheating already (cheating emotionally). You need to get it straightened out. If you are religious, try talking to a member of the clergy first. It may help you clear up your thoughts.


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