personally, i think discussing this with your wife is bad advice. if you really need to work on things then just have a sit-down and go to marriage counseling. no good can come about of you telling her about your "feelings" for another woman i dont know if the people who are advising you to do this are married or just have girlfriends, but as a married man i advise against it. as with most things in life, it does make a difference if you have experience or are merely hypothesising.. once you tell her you CANT go back. if you decide to tell her later then you'll still have that option. heck, you can even be proud about how you didn't do anything and just walked away (presuming you do).

i see many people in here telling you to discuss this with her, which i highly advise against. I say just get over it and work on your marriage if it needs it. let's see what other people think, anonymously, based on their status.


Discuss love for another woman with wife?
Im married and I say tell your wife about your new flame.
Im married and i say keep your mouth SHUT and just work on your marriage.
Ive never been married and say go ahead and tell your wife about your new love interest.
Ive never been married but even I know telling her would be a BAD idea.




ps if you think that his wife will be happy that he shared this information with her you have a LOT to learn about women.

Originally posted by Tourgasm:
Sometimes you can mess up a word so bad that spell check doens't know what the hell you're talking about.