Welcome to the human condition.

Are you happy? Are you satisfied?

If not, why?

If not, what are you gonna do about it?

"What if she's the real one for me?" Wow. That's TOO subjective a question for you to even pose to yourself, it's the perfect rationalization to allow yourself something you'd never rationally allow yourself. There are 125 million females in this country. You're married to one. That was NOT random. To ask if this new one of the other 124,999,999 is really "the one" after all is going about this BACKWARDS. If you have NO interest in punting on your present wife, work on fixing what you have with her BEFORE you see if playing with matches AND gasoline is satisfying. Your question is NOT so far removed from "What if the one for me is a mail order bride from the Ukraine that I've not met yet?" Do you want to start from scratch or not?

Another problem: Humans OFTEN are slow to figure things out and/or to accept them. My first marriage was toast before I fully realized it, and accepting it took still longer. If you ever find yourself sticking around for the sake of the kids, it's already 85% (or more) in the dumpster. This problem of how well we know ourselves, how quickly/clearly we can figure things out, sorting the truth from the illusion, good luck on that part. Again, welcome to the human condition.

AVOID this lady unless you WANT to nuke your marriage.

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