Not counting the problems that this woman can possibly create at your home, you can also possibly cause problems at work. I saw just this same thing happen.

Both coworkers of mine, one in a crumbling ten year marriage, and one with a 3+ year girlfriend, whom he has kids with. Everything was going beautifully with the relationship. The woman finally decided it was time to get out of the failing marriage so she could spend more time with the coworker. The divorce and a nasty custody battle started (and are still going).

Well, when the guy told the girlfriend about it she told him that if he wasnt going to be with her, she was going to take the girls and move to Idaho with her parents. The guy cut the work relationship and stayed with his girlfriend and kids.

Now, whenever the girl comes into work (she works a different shift now and we rarely see her) all we (we being the group of us that work nights) hear about is how she loved him so much, and how he was the man of her dreams, and blah, blah, blah.

What if you follow these same steps? You made no mention of children, but what if you destroy your marriage and Mei Ling doesnt want to? Work is going to be awkward, and possibly have problems. All that would have to happen is you put yourself in my female coworkers shoes and she could easily file sexual harrassment charges and you are not out of a marriage and a job.

Its not worth it. Run. Now!

· Jon Miconi · Coming Soon! · 01 Cougar · 98 V70R