Originally posted by caltour:
I've been married for almost ten years now. I love my wife. She is truly a wonderful woman and I am lucky as hell to be married to her.

How far can you go and not be cheating?



Get the [censored] out of there. Do whatever you need to do to stop what's happening, because it's just not good. No matter if you think you could be a good guy and get to know her, or whatever, just run. You're a male homo sapien. You have a good chance of falling either emotionally or physically for this woman, when you are committed already. she may be interesting, but it's probably mostly because she's new and forbidden and different and exciting. Remember the first days with your wife, and how things were then, because it was new. You got into this for a reason: you thought it was the best thing for you, and for her. Don't second guess yourself.

I know what you're saying, "I said, no boniking...". Well, I realize this. I'm not doubting your resolution in that area. But monogamy is about more than that, so it's best to keep it way on this side of the fence. You know that if you go over by the fence, you are going to want to look over it, and then sit on it, maybe lean over a little, and the next thing you know, you're as far on the other side as you can be, but leaning back with one finger still touching the fence. It's not black and white, so don't mess with that big grey area. You are already pushing it putting those two sentences together, up there.

-Philip Maynard '95 Contour [71 STS | Track Whore] '97 Miata [71 ES | Boulevard Pimp] 2006 autocross results