Contour Enthusiasts Group Archives Forums General Common Interests What is infidelity, exactly?

I don't care HOW pure your intentions are or how intellectual/spiritual or platonic they appear to be: if you've got this level of attraction to her already, you are potentially setting yourself up for one heck of a fall, damn your moral fortitude.

Let me put it this way: If this would be something that you would feel uncomfortable discussing with your wife in the EXACT terms you've just placed here, you should STRONGLY consider not pursuing any level of intimacy with this other woman.

...unless you have a rabid desire to contribute to alimony payments in the near future.

Infatuation usually ends up leading a person around by their nose; NOT the other way around. Remember the quote that "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions" every time you see this little Asian beauty...

Now, if you and your wife are into threesomes, that's an entirely different story.