Originally posted by 99SESPORT:
You need to ask for transfer to a different office, different floor in the building, quit your job, find something else, tell your wife, be honest with yourself, and realize the grass is not greener in your Chinese womans backyard.

In other words RUN!!!!!!

Flee, get out, don't look back, pretend this woman was just some dream girl you saw that you know you could never have. You're married man...get over it...




I hear what you are all saying about being faithful, and I thank you for it.

But what if Mei Ling was the right one for me all along? With Mei Ling, I am totally seeing sparks and feeling like a dopey lovesick kid, for the first time in my life.

Yes, I love my wife. We have that mellow, long-term relationship thing that I treasure. But what if I missed out on something important the first time around?

Originally posted by BOFH:
I'm not an expert, but the fact that you think about this woman means you are not getting something you want/need from your wife.


I'm not feeling so much like I have a "problem" in my marriage, or that I have "unmet needs." It's more like I've just discovered a whole new plane of existence that I never knew about before.