Originally posted by 99SESPORT:
You need to ask for transfer to a different office, different floor in the building, quit your job, find something else, tell your wife, be honest with yourself, and realize the grass is not greener in your Chinese womans backyard. She seems to be interested in cheating on her husband, flirting with a married man, and destroying two relationships.

She doesn't sound like a very good person.

I don't know anything about the relationship between you and your wife, but PUHLEEEEEASE!!! You have the option to walk away from this adulterous relationship right now, before anything you can't turn away from starts. And I think you probably need to be honest with your wife and let her know that she isn't giving you something you need. Man, don't destroy your life like this....



I agree 110%... thoughts are ok. But don't get thoughts like, I wonder what it would be like to be with her, I wonder if my wife would find out. If you ever have to wonder if your wife will see you... then its not good to do whatever you are doing. I would say be friends, and if your tempted to do anything, back out of the friendship. You have to imagine how much your wife gave up to be with you. You can never have any touching (hugging is ok), but no sexually satisfying anything (I believe even a kiss is wrong). I don't know if she is married but if she is and shes looking at you, don't do it... because what if you divorced and got married to this chinese girl, and then she spots even another guy. huh? then what? you gave up a great marriage for nothing but a cheating woman. I have always said if they cheat with you, they have the ability to do it with another person.

Take my advice, don't ruin a 10 year marriage for a cute chinese girl.

Steve

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