You need to ask for transfer to a different office, different floor in the building, quit your job, find something else, tell your wife, be honest with yourself, and realize the grass is not greener in your Chinese womans backyard.

In other words RUN!!!!!!

Flee, get out, don't look back, pretend this woman was just some dream girl you saw that you know you could never have. You're married man...get over it...

This woman at work seems to be interested in cheating on her husband, flirting with a married man, and destroying two relationships.

She doesn't sound like a very good person.

I don't know anything about the relationship between you and your wife, but PUHLEEEEEASE!!! You have the option to walk away from this adulterous relationship right now, before anything you can't turn away from starts. And I think you probably need to be honest with your wife and let her know that she isn't giving you something you need. Man, don't destroy your life like this....

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